Adventure and Love.....

When I was a teenager and asked “what would be my ideal man that would make me fall in love?” – I used to reply that I would only love a man who is God-fearing, a virtuous (without vices), intelligent, kind and rich… and the usual remark I got – “my dear, you would be a forever spinster as I bet no man ever exists with all those traits…” but as a young idealist then I normally smiled and said. “Well, let’s see as I believe there would always be an exception.” At the schools, offices, meetings, diner dates, parties and trips abroad no man I met and dealt with ever made me turn on not until… The month of April, marks the twist of that idealism and never I expected that to happen two years ago. Still in my heart lingers the mixed feelings of ecstasy and depression when I reckon my adventure in Singapore two years ago.. I know everyone wishes to experience adventure and I believe the BEST moments can only come from ADVENTURE AND LOVE when you meet the Man you wish to be with wherever you go for the rest of your life..but only brave hearts can make it happen!

TO BE ADVENTUROUS.....

Being adventurous means pursuing what the heart desires…would that being HAPPY and having lots of FUN all the way? Of course, the answer would be YES but for sure, some would oppose me and probably ask me – how come? Based on my own experiences as I had been in many places and dealt with many people of different ages and cultures, there’s only one thing I always consider an advice from my best friend that is – “ALWAYS BE NICE AS THE WORLD IS SO SMALL AND THAT SOMEDAY, SOMEWHERE AND SOMEHOW YOU SHALL MEET THE SAME PERSON AGAIN”. So, with this thinking it somehow helps me control the situation as well as my emotion and most importantly, uphold my dignity.